tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38232942.post6418339807235440615..comments2024-03-15T01:38:51.061-07:00Comments on MotherhoodLater.com - World’s leading newsletter, website and community for midlife moms: "He's Just Not That Into You" - By Cara Potapshyn MeyersRobin Gorman Newmanhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/06816036736416667540noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38232942.post-83851487373128216882011-01-12T15:42:14.516-08:002011-01-12T15:42:14.516-08:00I think that the lesson that "things are as t...I think that the lesson that "things are as they are" hits all of us at various stages. It sounds like it's hit you and right where it counts.<br />Of course, this must be so so so difficult, and my heart goes out to you.<br />But, with acceptance comes peace and the ability to move on. I want you to find even greater joy in your next phase of life.<br />xcCyma Shapiro-Rolandhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11768788988941570909noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38232942.post-1521371475688498822011-01-12T06:20:04.206-08:002011-01-12T06:20:04.206-08:00That was a brave post. And I hope it helps with th...That was a brave post. And I hope it helps with the anger and the healing. It's so important to have information right now, but if he had answered you, you might have gotten information that was not right for you.<br /><br />Cara, when my ex-husband asked me why I wanted a divorce, I could not tell him. Mostly because he had been suffering from depression and had so much to deal with in terms of addiction, etc. So I didn't want to tell him the truth. <br /><br />The truth was that I wasn't that into him any more. I had grown and changed and wanted something different. I did not want him to try to become that something different. I was just done. And when you're done, there's no sense in opening up that can of worms. <br /><br />By the way, both me and my ex are happily married now. You will be, too. And your anger will fade and so will the hurt. But not because time heals this wound...only because you will because you are doing all of the right things. You're getting help. You're working through it. <br /><br />Good for you. Really good for you.Laura Houstonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12049115743307375415noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38232942.post-63337018552923870172011-01-12T04:00:32.894-08:002011-01-12T04:00:32.894-08:00Wow! It must be very difficult! You whole life and...Wow! It must be very difficult! You whole life and way of life changes when you divorce. I can just imagine how hard it must be when you are not the one who wants this whole closure of a relationship and life!<br />Best wishes!Karen du Toithttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17962536496240863886noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-38232942.post-85338029498445871992011-01-12T03:06:50.792-08:002011-01-12T03:06:50.792-08:00That was a brave and poignant post. Hard to swallo...That was a brave and poignant post. Hard to swallow but glad you got closure.HelpWeveGotKidshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11188753198796973843noreply@blogger.com