Family and Friend Time in DC by Robin Gorman Newman

It's been quite some time since we've vacationed with another family.

Seth was off for Veteran's Day, and we decided to take him out of third grade for a day, so we could spend four nights in Washington, DC.

Seth is learning about the Presidents and history in school, so this was a terrific real life educational experience.  I recall visiting DC as a child with my parents, but didn't recall the details of the trip...so this was a trip down memory lane and something special to share with my son.

Our good friends Laura and Ira joined us with their son Jeremy, and that made the boys all the happier. 

We stayed in the lovely Willard Intercontinental (photo below: Seth in the lobby).....conveniently located only a few blocks from the White House.  Seth got a huge kick out of the fact that he felt like we were temporarily living practically next door to President Obama. The rooms are spacious and elegant, and the concierge was always helpful and on the mark with restaurant recommendations, directions and sighseeing tips. The fact that our room was next to our friends made it a particular treat for the kids.

Known as the Crown Jewel of Pennsylvania Avenue, the Willard InterContinental has been the center of the social and political life in Washington DC since it first opened in 1818. The Willard InterContinental Washington is internationally known as one of the best DC hotels.

Time flew during our stay.  There is so much to do in DC, and we had full cooperation of the weather, which allowed us to walk a ton.

Our first day was spent visiting the Museum of American History, followed by lunch at Chef Geoff's Downtown, souvenir shopping, and an early evening visit to the White House (photo below...with Seth).  American History is one of the many Smithsonian Museums in DC, and admission is free.  A highlight for me was seeing The Ruby Slippers, as worn by Judy Garland in the Wizard of Oz (one of my favorite movies).

Day two was a tour of the U.S. Capitol.  Quite a beautiful structure inside and out, packed with lots of history, statues and grandure. Totally recommend taking a tour.  Afterwards, we had a quick bite and a visit to the National Air and Space Museum....an awesome place, according to my son....and I would agree.  You could easily spend hours here, so allow ample time if your child is an aviation fan. Our dinner spot was Daily Grill at Dupont Circle.  Great family restaurant with the hugest chicken pot pie I have ever seen!

Day three was a long-awaited visit to the International Spy Museum, followed by gift shopping at the The National Museum of Crime and Punishment - Cop Shop, a stroll around Dupont Circle, and dinner at Chef Geoff's Downtown.  At Dupont Circle, we stumbled on a local transit police officer who was kind enough to show Seth his equipment, explain his job, and pose for pictures.  You couldn't pay for a more opportune experience for Seth!  The International Spy Museum was impressive and fun...totally worth a trip.  It's interesting for kids and adults, and they offer enough interactive elements to keep you engaged...not to mention they have a super cool gift shop.

Day four (1/2 day) started with a visit to the National Law Enforcement Officers Memorial (first photo below), National Building Museum (third photo below) featuring a terrific Lego architectural exhibit, local firehouse (fourth photo below), and a visit to the majestic Lincoln Memorial (second photo below), plus quick looks at the Jefferson Memorial, George Washington Memorial, WWII Memorial and Martin Luther King Memorial.  Capping it all off, much to son's delight and excitement, was the two miliary air craft carriers he got to see heading toward the Pentagon.

Washington, DC is truly a feast for any family, and a must-do destination!

A Quickie by Robin Gorman Newman

Sometimes a quickie is as good as it gets…..and it’s better than nothing.  And, I don't mean in the way you're thinking, though the notion certainly applies.

Whether a foot massage...

Phone chat with a close friend...

Overnight escape...

High intensity run...

Romp in the hay...

It can all feel pretty good, even if fleeting.  And, sometimes as multi-tasking moms, we have to be grateful for what we can squeeze in.

This topic arose for me this week when a friend emailed on Monday that she'd love to chat, and Seth was off from school (Martin Luther King Day), so I had no time for  much of anything other than engaging him.

My friend is single (no kids), so her time is always her own.  And, while she wrote that she understood, I felt she had a strong need to connect.

So, as I finally got out of the house....to head to the gym.....with Seth in tow...I decided to give my friend a call (on speaker cell phone) from the car.  I started off the chat by saying I was calling for a "quickie."  We could have gone on for hours, as we have done in the past, time-permitting.  But, that wasn't about to happen now so I wanted to let her know upfront.  It was good to hear her voice, at the very least. And, she got to share what was on her mind, so I was glad to be there.

It's so easy to feel that we can't do something because our schedule just doesn't permit.  And, then we feel bored or deprived or drained...or any multitude of not-positive emotions.  But, does it have to be that way?  Isn't something better than nothing?  OK....maybe not everything (a whole chocolate bar is better than a bite), but, it's something to consider.  It might satiate you more than you'd expect.

While I often yearn for a vacation, sometimes just an overnight someplace you enjoy can be rejuvenating.

Getting to the gym isn't always viable, but fitness experts will say that high intensity 10 minutes sprints can be beneficial.

Having a 60 minute foot massage, my favorite, is always a treat.  But, if I can't find the time, I'll go for a 30 minute session, or entice my husband to give me one....which would likely be around three minutes, but I'll take it.

My point is that we don't always have to think BIG.  Life is full and busy.....but you can find pockets of joy and carve out time for things that bring you pleasure....even if it's just for mere moments.  Our bodies and minds have muscle memory, so the positive vibes can last and remind you of what you're entitled to want and create in your life, even if caught up in the daily throes of demanding parenting.

This is a "quickie" blog, as it's been one of those weeks, but you get my gist. 

Take a look at your week ahead, and make a vow to work in some "quickie" ME time.  You'll be all the better for it, as will your family.

My Travels by Robin Gorman Newman

For those who read this blog and know that my family did a bit of traveling in August, this is the long-awaited sharing of that experience.  Now that my son is settling into school, this being his first full week (second grade), I can turn my attention more fully to some other things.

August, being my birthday month, and a "big" one this year, having turned 50, I decided that I wanted to do something especially memorable as a family. 

And, as one of my "direct" friends put it.........it's time to cross something off your "bucket" list.....so you can move forward and make room for other things.

I debated long and hard and ultimately decided that this was the year I wanted to visit the Greek Islands.  How best to do that with a 7 year old in tow?  It felt like a very big idea and trip, but I was ready to go for it!

I had taken a Costa cruise years ago (with Marc and my dad), before becoming a mom, and wasn't entirely sure it was something I yearned to do again.  But, one day I was reading a conventions and business magazine featuring a write-up about Norwegian Cruises which caught my eye.  They were promoting a new ship and its capacity to accomodate corporate meetings.  Something about it struck me (in a good way), and I decided to explore the notion of taking a cruise.  After some online research and asking around, it became evident that a cruise is a great option for a family, especially with a young child.

Checking our calendar and pouring through lists of foreign ports, and establishing priorities of "must visits," we contacted Jenny Reed of http://www.ourcruiseplanner.com/ and booked a cruise for 12 nights on the Ruby Princess.  It was a trip of a lifetime.  My son's first overseas trip, and our first voyage abroad since becoming parents....so it's been over 10 years.  I discovered this when I dug up some old Frommer's and Fodor's guides in our basement.

Jenny was very patient and a big help with all the details and worked with us to add on a few days before and after the cruise to stay a bit longer in the ports of arrival and departure.

With major anticipation, we prepared for weeks.  Packing, making lists, boarding our bird and beta fish, etc., etc.  So much work when your plan is to go away and have fun.  Isn't it always like that?!

We flew to Venice over night (tiring to say the least....and the time difference was challenging), but once we landed and hopped in the water taxi, it was as if we were living a dream.  My son loved it, and even though I had been to Venice before, as did my husband, there was something different about this trip.  Maybe because we saw it through the eyes of a 7 year old who was awestruck.  Plus, the weather was comfortable in Venice, and we saw things that  I didn't recall from the past, like the Rialto Bridge with its great views and many enticing shops. And, let me not forget to mention the awesome gelato and pizza.  And, we took a Gondola ride, my first, that was so much fun.  It was a highlight of our visit for all of us (watch above video...click on arrow on left side of box to play).

We stayed at the five-star, historic Bauer Venezia (above - water entrance pictured) for two nights before boarding the ship, and I'd highly recommend it.  It was lovely and well-located.  The room was spacious and comfortable, and the buffet breakfast on the outdoor patio overlooking the canal was a treat.  I wanted to bottle the feeling each morning we ate there.  And, particularly special about the Bauer is their new program just for children and families. We were excited to take advantage of it and took a two hour private city tour with an English-speaking guide named Silvia who specialized in taking children around to enjoy the sights. She was lively and knowledgeable, and knew what would appeal to a child. The Bauer children's program also includes outings like: A Perfect Venetian Crime - a special crime mystery tour of the Doge’s Palace; Workshops at the Palazzo Grassi and Punta della Dogana and a Tour of the Venice Natural History Museum, visiting the Tenùe Aquarium, the Specialized Library, Searching for Dinosaurs, Stone Creatures, and The Path of Life, accompanied by an English-speaking guide.  

It was hard to leave Venice, but we were excited, especially my son, to board the Ruby Princess (pictured above.)  It was quite a sight when we first saw it arrive as we toured Venice.  Its grandeur took your breath away.  We took a water taxi from our hotel to the ship, and from that moment on, we felt well taken care of onboard.  We enjoyed most of the ports, in Italy, Croatia, Turkey and Greece.  Favorites, aside from Venice, were Rhodes, Mykonos, Santorini in Greece and Kusadasi in Turkey (great shopping...surprisingly.)

It was scorchingly hot and sweaty, and that part was a huge challenge, especially with all the walking we did.  But, on the couple of free days at sea, we got massages at the Lotus Spa and reclined by one of the pools, and it was wonderful to relax, read, be served cold drinks and look out at the water.  To me, there's not much more mellowing than having the opportunity to be near a body of water...and you can't get much larger than the Mediterranean Sea.

Seth had a blast in the kid's program (Princess Pelicans) where he was well-supervised and engaged.  We took him off the ship for certain excursions, but other days, when we felt it might be too much for him, he was just as happy to remain onboard and play with other kids.  He loved the bunk bed in our room with a balcony, despite the fact that he fell out one night (luckily didn't get hurt).  And, the special tour of Navigation Bridge was interesting, and we got to meet the captain and learn how a ship operates.

Marc and I particularly liked Movies Under the Stars....when we had a chance to watch a film on a huge outdoor movie screen, while laying on a lounge chair after dinner by a pool.  They'd come around and serve you cookies and milk and popcorn.  And, one "date" night, he and I had dinner at Sabatini's....a specialty Italian restaurant on the ship that was not included as part of the regular cruise...but we'd recommend it.

The ship was massive, and the cruise was sold out (over 3,000 passengers) , yet it didn't feel over-crowded.  Embarking and disembarking was relatively smooth, and we enjoyed the tours we chose, especially when we had the opportunity to be on an air-conditioned bus for a bit.

The Ruby Princess featured a Piazza-style atrium, casino, four duty-free shops, Lotus Spa and fitness center, The Sanctuary, sports deck, wedding chapel, children’s and teen’s centers, disco and observation lounge, nine-hole putting course, golf simulator, library, Internet Café, art gallery, and more.  So, there was something for everyone.

After the cruise, we spent one night in Rome at the Hotel Artemide (a good choice). It's on a popular (lesser priced) shopping street and walkable to many sights.  I always enjoy Rome, and we visited Trevi Fountain, saw the Coliseum, Piazza Navona, ate gelato at Tre Scalini, shopped, etc.  It was a full day before we flew home....exhausted (and with bad colds) yet fulfilled and chockfull of memories and stories of a trip that none of us will ever forget.